THE CHALLENGE OF PLANNING AN INTERFAITH WEDDING

Posted on April 15th, 2018
By Stephie Grob Plante for Tablet Magazine


A ceremony that honored both Judaism and Catholicism without offending our parents proved elusive—until an uncle saved the day


When I got engaged four years ago, some of my relatives asked if my fiancé Chris was planning to convert. The answer was no: I was Jewish, he was Catholic, and none of that would change once we were married. Being an interfaith couple wasn’t something we worried about much. Our thinking, we recognize now, was matter of fact and fairly superficial. At 24 and 25 years old, we’d been together for five years already and lived together since senior year of college. Religion never posed an issue before—why should it now?

We were young. We had much to learn.

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Children of intermarriage explore identity challenges

Posted on April 8th, 2018
By Patricia Corrigan for Jweekly.com


For young adults born into interfaith families, defining their Jewish identity is complex and finding acceptance often is difficult. The burden is even heavier for mixed-race individuals.

Take Victoria Alara Alcoset, 47, born to an Ashkenazi Jewish mother and a Catholic father with Native American and Mexican-American roots. Brought up Catholic, Alcoset said she “gravitated toward Jewish religious practice in young adulthood.” But when she planned her adult bat mitzvah, a rabbi suggested she first convert.

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Keep the Peace in a 2-Religion Home

Posted on April 1st, 2018
by LEAH ROCKETTO for PopSugar


As I child, I spent my Sundays sitting in a pew with my mother and learning about various verses from the Bible. I also spent several nights of the year lighting yahrzeit candles and reciting Hebrew prayers alongside my father. Yes, I was one of many children, though not in my town, who was raised in a two-religion home. Yet despite what my friends said, I was not half-Catholic, half-Jewish (or cashew, as they lovingly called me). I was, in fact a full-fledged Catholic.

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